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The Big Move-In Together Thing Does Not Feel So Big Afterall
We don’t feel overwhelmed. Should we feel overwhelmed?
Ana and I are about to move together in a little over a week.
We had anything planned in the last month. She did all the hard work, but I supported her with what I could. We currently live in different countries and *lucky* for her, I am about to move to her country.
She is an overachiever. She did a lot of things in a short time frame all by herself.
- She found a nice place for us to stay
- She cleaned up the new place
- She moved her things from the old house to our house
- She arranged everything in the new house
- She went from one ISP to another to find a suitable internet connection
While she was doing all these things, I was googling, talking to her on the phone, and supporting her every move.
I did everything I could to help and support her, but I still have the feeling that I wanted to do more… But unfortunately, I couldn’t.
She did all these things in a week. A lot of hard work had been done in a short time period. And she is not even tired or overwhelmed.
